Is Your Spouse Cheating?
Red Flags

The following are but a few telltale "red flags", "paper trails" and "behavioral changes" which may indicate a cheating spouse:

• Discovery of a post office box.
• The toilet bowl seat is up, (men) and when you left home it was down.
• The passenger seat in the car has been moved and is not in the usual position.
• An unusual number of hang ups or wrong number calls.
• Fragrances of colognes and/or perfumes are noticed on clothing.
• Automobile mileage is unusual for claims made by spouse.
• Your spouse explains a late return home as a result of having to drive out of town on business, but yet the mileage on the car indicates less than ten miles driven.
• Discover the recent opening of another checking account.
• Unaccounted for hairs of a different color on clothing.
• Cigarette smoke on clothing that can not be explained.

  PAPER TRAILS

• Credit card transactions for unknown or unusual types of purchases.
• Cosmetic, perfume or lipstick purchases listed but not received.
• An increase in toll and/or long distance calls.
• Unordinary or unexplained increase in ATM withdrawals. Check the transaction record to ID the withdrawal for:
• Location - You live in an area that is an unexplained distance from the ATM withdrawal.
• Time and Date - ATM withdrawal is recorded at a time when the spouse should be elsewhere, such as at work.
• Florist or jewelry bills.
• Credit card gas purchases that are inconsistent for the amount of miles driven on the car.

  BEHAVIORAL CHANGES

• Joins a health gym or weight reducing clinic.
• Visits made to the tanning salon.
• New hair style.
• Wearing hair spray, colognes & perfumes more often.
• Excessive buying of new and different clothes.
• Sudden and unexplained change in clothing style.
• The buying of sexy underwear or lingerie.
• There is an unexplained aloofness or indifference in the relationship.

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