Communicating With Children

Communicating effectively with children is dependent upon learning to be a good listener. Although parents hear children talking every day and carry on conversations with them, good communication is not always taking place.

When your child talks, make an effort to really listen. Stop whatever you are doing, establish eye contact and pay attention to what your child is saying. Quite often what is said between the lines is just as important as the words being spoken. Demostrate as interest in what your child is saying by asking appropriate questions and responding in a positive manner. If a child's comments are continually passed off as being of little consequence, the child will begin to feel that his/her opinions are not important.

Find ways to communicate to your child that you think he/she is important. Compliment achievements and efforts with no strings attached. Compliments can be good motivates and help show that you really notice your child.

Teaching children to be good listeners can help prevent many problems that might occur at home or at school.

There are many excellent listening techniques that can be followed. These techniques will make a difference when a problem or misunderstanding is discussed. Practice these techniques at home and teach children how to become good listeners.